her Ten Commandments

  1. Although freely giving herself as a submissive, she is His equal and is to be treated as such.
  2. she will find value in herself and be pleased with who she is.
  3. Communication will be open and bidirectional, however the word “No” does not exist for her.
  4. At all times she is to seek out ways to please Him.  These will include, but are not limited to:
    • Sitting at His feet, whenever she can do so without creating discomfort or discord in public.
    • Wearing her uniform (public and private collars).
    • Wearing heels when she feels her body can sustain this requirement.
    • Kneeling when He enters the room.
    • Keeping their home in order.
    • Performing her duties as a sexual submissive.
  5. Following all written or oral instructions is required.  If there is a question about a rule or instruction she will ask for clarification.  If no questions are asked, it is assumed the requirement is understood and correction will be applied when appropriate.
  6. Correction will be provided as soon as possible and will be explained prior to its issuance.
  7. Approval will be requested prior to activities such as masturbation, orgasming, entering his bed or imbibing alcohol.
  8. she will maintain herself in whatever way the Master wishes, including clothing, exercising, and self-awareness.
  9. she will accept his cum wherever or however He elects to provide it and will taste, swallow, or clean It up as commanded.
  10. she is His’ most valuable possession, as such she will be:
    • Proud of everything she does
    • Take care of herself physically and mentally
    • Wear her collar with pride as she freely elects to submit totally to Him.
    • Aware that her body belongs to Him and he will elect how much of it she is to show.
    • Open to wearing something that makes her feel uncomfortable in public.  However she may bring a change of clothing to cover herself if she becomes too uncomfortable.
    • Sure to walk, sit, or stand with confidence so that others around her will admire her performance.

2 thoughts on “her Ten Commandments

  1. Evangeline360 says:

    May I ask to be tested? I want to loose a part of me but I don’t know if I fit.

    • sheforhim says:

      Hello Evangeline, I would encourage you to find someone around your town or close to you that you could create a personal dynamic with. You will find a lot more joy if you are able to make that personal connection.

      If you are looking for a test as to your level of submission there are several out on the Internet that are free and easy to take. bDSMtest.org is a good resource for such a test.

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