Getting Started

It can be scary to jump into the deep end of the BDSM world, or, as the wife says “going from 0to 60 just like that”.

This article has some ideas that can help you get into BDSM play:

It does not get into a 24/7 dynamic but it talks about ways to play.

They mention wax play, and they quickly hit on checking for the right candles… because using a dinner table candle is provably going to burn your playmate, and not with “good pain”.

Some other items:

  1. Kinky text messaging.
  2. Cook a dinner naked.
  3. Sit at the “Dom’s” feet and watch a movie.
  4. Surprise your playmate with an unexpected sex act, like oral sex in a car wash.
  5. Dress sexy for bed.
  6. Lock the bedroom door and make your partner “get the key”.
  7. Ice.
  8. Toys.
  9. Rope.
  10. Bubble bath.

There is practically no end to the possibilities.  Be creative and be open to new opportunities, and you can have a lot of fun.

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